UNC Student memorial to be picketed...

[Cutesunshine]

My best friends Husband, Damian, is a devout christian and he maintains a pretty throrough christian blog/website. While I was down in NC, there was much on the news about Eve Carson, the UNC student who was murdered. Shows were interrupted as they found the 2 murderers. It's a huge deal in NC as a girl with a good head on her shoulders was murdered in cold blood for no reason... an ATM card.

Anyway, Damian wrote a blog about a group that plans to attend eve's memorial and picket it.... a religious group who basically follows what he does... Christianity influenced by calvinism.... They're picketing it based on the fact that god hates gays.

This group is really messed up.
Here's a link to their flyer for the picket...
http://www.godhatesfags.com/written/fliers/20080311_eve-carson-memorial.pdf

Their website
www.godhatesfags.com

And Lum's website
http://www.christiansincontext.org/



I'm not all religious, but this is crazy and makes me sick.

[Donna]

whoa! The first link to the flyer came up all script.

It's amazing how these so called religious groups claim to love God, but spend all their time damning other peoples behaviors and choices, rather than glorifying God, which is what Jesus wants us to do. Last I knew to make it through to everlasting life with God, there is one qualification, to believe and glorify Jesus.

Now....personally.........I do wonder about my friends who are gay going to heaven, and those who sin and aren't sorry for it, but that's as far as I take it, I wonder...........it's not for me to judge or question them. That's His job, I'm free of that burden.

[Cutesunshine]

Its an adobe file... Here's what it says.



NEWS RELEASE
Thank God for another dead
college student - this one killed at
N. Carolina Univ., Chapel Hill, NC.
God Hates American Colleges.
They are filthy, anti-God, arrogant,
debauched, decadent & depraved.
This victim was student body pres.
We will picket Eve Carson's
memorial Tue., Mar. 18, ~:30 p.m.
Yes. In religious protest and warning; to wit:
"Be not deceived; God is not mocked." Gal.
6:7. God Hates Fags! & Fag-Enablers. Ergo,
God hates N. Carolina Univ. It is a cesspool of
iniquity - throughout; top to bottom - staff,
administration, faculty, alumni, student body.
There is no fear of God before their eyes, and
hence they are irreversibly doomed. American
universities are God-defying, Satanic, and vile.
Picket time, date, place:
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill
Dean E. Smith Center, 300 Skipper Bowles Drive
Chapel Hill, North Carolina, 2:30 to 4:00 p.m.

[Donna]

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omg......how sick is that? And of course, in our country, they have a right to protest, but I'm sure with the advance notice, they won't be able to go past any boundries. I believe God doesn't want us walking around angry and abolishing others, what a waste of their lives.......people like that need to be prayed for.

[Cutesunshine]

Yeah I think it's pretty fucked up. Guess they go to soldiers funerals and memorials and shit too. Supposedly god doesnt love them either.

Its religions like that which turn people away from god in general. Extremists. They're no different than some of these terrorists in their ideas. They're just not killing themselves or other people.

[MedicCook]

Another reason why organized religion is the downfall of society.

[Queenie]

Disgusting. These people are more like terrorists then anything.

[Thomas the Solitary]

(I really got to fix the problems I'm having with formating. Sorry about that.)
You guys haven't heard of this guy?
I'm surprised.

I know it's inflamatory and wrong, etc. But remember, these guys are human, too.
It's helpful if you watch a news story on them that lets you into their grounds, church, etc. and you see how they work, etc.
They are kooky crazy, yeah, but they ARE human.

Here's what I had to say about them, when I was crazy strong focus into the religion thing:

http://s23.org/wiki/Utterly_Fucked_Up_Wackjob_Christianity"][/url] Utterly Fucked Up Wackjob Christianity From S23Wiki These are people that read the Bible and go completely apeshit. I'm not talking about the Mormons, or even (mainstream) Baptists. I'm talking about these kind: Fred Phelps, and his Westboro Baptist Church. Chick Publications. (ed. the link was removed. It's www.chick.com (http://www.chick.com)) There are also these people, holed up in their house (or compound as it's called sometimes): Wikipedia:Edward Lewis Brown. According to the wikipedia entry: (quote) The Concord Monitor reported: "The Browns changed their names in late March after converting to a non denominational form of Christianity they learned from a man named Sonny. According to friends of the Browns, Sonny, who wears a long beard, all-white attire and sandals, flew from Hawaii to New Hampshire to visit the Browns and shared his religious and legal teachings over several days." Elaine Brown is quoted as saying: "The only law book we now recognize is the Bible. The only way we're coming out of our home is either as free man and free woman or in body bags." (unquote) Sorry, but that seems to me to belong on this page. Refer to Make the Stand for their point of view. They are characterized by their complete and total departure from anything that Jesus actually taught, and replacing it with pure Hate. Also noteworthy of this kind is their complete inability to become accepted by more than a handful of people, and mostly, they believe that "only we are going to be saved". (so God created everybody, but is only going to save like ten or twelve people out of the kazillion on earth.) Of course, these are only manifestations of one man's model of the world. Your mileage may vary.

[MedicCook]

My problem is that people need to stop worrying about other people. These people are trying to mourn a loss and they do not need scumbag protesters interupting it no matter what religious side they are on.

[Thomas the Solitary]

My problem is that people need to stop worrying about other people. These people are trying to mourn a loss and they do not need scumbag protesters interupting it no matter what religious side they are on.

I agree 100%.

Also, these guys have had a judgment against them, ordering them to pay a LOT of money to ... someone, I forget, but anyway, it's enough money that they will have to curtail their protests.
I should find that video. They said it was somewhere around 250 thousand or something around that figure (I can't remember numbers for the life of me) they spent in a year for flights to protest.

[MedicCook]

It's like the anti-war protesters at the funerals of fallen US soldiers. Let these families mourn and honor their dead without having to deal with people protesting. The only thing is serves is making you the protester look like a scumbag.

[Thomas the Solitary]

America's most hated family

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42745000/jpg/_42745221_placards_bbc203.jpg Louis Theroux, left, with Gramps on the right

They call themselves the most hated family in the US and they picket funerals of soldiers killed in Iraq. So what did Louis Theroux make of the Phelpses after three weeks? In any country, let alone one as patriotic as the US, few actions are as provocative as protesting at a soldier's funeral.
The Phelps family pickets mourners across the country, to mark what it describes as God's revenge on the US for tolerating homosexuality.
Their actions are in the name of the Westboro Baptist Church, which numbers 71 and is headed by "Gramps", preacher Fred Phelps. The church, which is based in Topeka, Kansas, mostly comprises his extended family.
Louis Theroux, himself no stranger to people with unconventional views, says the Phelpses are the most extreme people he has ever met. But in the following interview, he reveals how three weeks with them left him perplexed by their motivation.
The Magazine: How well known are they in the US?
Louis Theroux: They're well known because of these pickets which they've been doing for at least 15 years now. The pickets weren't always of soldiers' funerals, but it got more extreme as it went on. Originally it started as pickets of places where gay people congregated - a local park becoming a cruising area which they objected to, and then when Aids came along they said it was punishment for homosexuality and they began picketing Gay Pride parades and marches and also then the funerals of people who died of Aids. And they didn't originally use offensive words like "fag". They would say "homosexuality", but then it just escalated.
You say that in America the media tries not to give them the coverage, but aren't you just giving them a voice over here?
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/shared/img/o.gif http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/nol/shared/img/v3/start_quote_rb.gif If a gay person goes along to talk to them outside the church, they wouldn't humiliate them or be rude, they'd shake their hand http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/nol/shared/img/v3/end_quote_rb.gif


Louis Theroux

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Hate group targeted by lawmakers (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/5015552.stm)

Viewers will have to see the show and judge for themselves how these people come across. Certainly this group view it as a platform and that's why they agreed to do the show. But I think what we did was something more than that. What we did, I think, was try to understand how a group like this operates; its group psychology, the way the beliefs are passed down the family, and how those beliefs can be held by very urbane, intelligent, professional people. So when you cover a group like this, you take a gamble that you will be able to get under its skin and reveal something about it, and something about us all as people, and I think we managed to do that.
They don't separate their children from the real world either, do they?
They go to school; you can have normal conversations with these people. They're intelligent, high achieving, have good jobs, and they're kind, for the most part, when they're not on pickets. They're easy to communicate with and deal with too. It's just this one area - their pickets. They will even - so I'm given to understand and I have no reason to doubt it - work alongside gay people very happily in the work place. If a gay person goes along to talk to them outside the church or if a gay person even turned up to the church to attend a service, they wouldn't humiliate them or be rude to them; they'd shake their hand and welcome them in.
Do all the children follow this Church?
Gramps, the pastor, who's the head of the whole ministry, he's had about 13 children. But four fell away. You could say that for only four to fall away shows that you can escape from it but then you can also say how amazing that nine of them stayed in it. That there are 71 of them in total is a testament to how powerful an effect your upbringing has on you.
Are the ones who left, ostracised from the whole family now?
Yes. Once you leave, that's it, there's no going back and if you're still in the group you're not allowed to "fellowship" with an ex-member. That's a no-no.
They're relatively "normal" apart from this obsession with the pickets?
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42745000/jpg/_42745237_girls_bbc203.jpg Some of the girls look All-American

Louis: Yes. In some ways they're a model family. All these things that you associate with the breakdown of families, like the dad's gone to the pub all the time or they just watch TV and the parents don't talk to the kids, well you can't put that on this family. They spend all their recreational time together and they all look out for each other. They don't really have friends outside the church because all their best friends are in the church. It's important to recognise the good qualities of the family as it helps explain why so many of them have stayed in it and embraced the hateful stuff.
Were there any other aspects of the family that intrigued you?
Louis: I first saw the family through reading about them and on their website but now, having met them, the most incongruous thing about them is how they look. What I mean is, for example, many of the women are these nice-looking young ladies whose beliefs are so old-fashioned in some ways so you'd think they're kind of like the Amish or something and wear head dresses and long skirts and dirndls. Instead, they're all wearing shorts and T-shirts. They're all-American girls with long hair and good teeth and looking tanned and relaxed, playing volleyball and laughing and joking around and that is, for me, a totally new kind of experience. Dealing with these people with, like, Palaeolithic beliefs but hearing them coming from fresh-faced teenagers and women who you think you'd run into at the mall.
Isn't what they're doing just the ultimate in free speech and democracy?
Well yes, in the sense that they have a right to their beliefs. Although I don't think they have a right to invade someone's funeral, they have a right to hold their signs on street corners. I don't think they should be stopped from doing that. I still think it's a pretty weird thing to do and quite a horrible one.
What else do you tackle in the film?
What we're trying to do in the documentary is look at an activity that is so antisocial, so strange, so futile and at its worst, so cruel, and we're saying "Why? Why do that?", especially when you seem to be, for the most part, kind and sensitive people. We're exploring what is cruelty, trying to explain how something that really does very often just amount to cruelty could be perpetuated and passed down in a family. Why would nice people do such horrible things?
Do you think you've come to an answer?
Yes, I think we do. I think that the pastor is not a very nice person. I think he's an angry person who's twisted the Bible and picked and chosen verses that support his anger, that sort of justify his anger, and he's instilled that in his children and they've passed it on to their children. Although the second and third generation are by and large quite nice people from what I saw, they still live under the influence of their Gramps.
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/42745000/jpg/_42745223_family_bbc203.jpg Apart from their hateful protests, Theroux found them to be quite kind

It shows you what strange avenues the religious impulse can take you down. I think another part of the answer is that parts of the Christian Bible are pretty weird. There's a lot of weird stuff in there and when you take that and you add this angry, domineering kind of a father figure, which is Gramps, and you add that he has sort of separated them off from other people, other families and driven them to achieve a lot, and he was kind of a charismatic guy, and still is up to a point. He was a very verbal, very persuasive, an extremely compelling speaker. All these things added together combined to make a powerful influence.

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There's more, but I can't find it. That's the beginning.

[Donna]

20/20 had a special on them a year or so ago. It should be a crime to bring your kids up to hate. Just disgraceful.............they scream horrible things to the poor mourners.

[MedicCook]

Parents should have the right to bring their kids up with whatever beliefs they so choose, but they need to teach them to be respectful about their beliefs.

[Cutesunshine]

I dont like that the bible is open to such interpretation like that. God doesnt "hate" anyone. There is no use of the word hate at all.

I dont care how people feel, but death is death, and that can ruin someones closure. I think their pricks, and Im shocked they havent been killed.