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MedicCook
05-19-2008, 06:21 PM
Autistic boy banned from church

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BERTHA, Minn. -- 13-year-old Adam Race and his family did not go to mass at the Church of St. Joseph Sunday morning like they usually do.

The Todd County Sheriff told Adam's mom if she did take him to St. Joseph's, she would be arrested.

St. Joseph's, a Catholic church in Bertha, Minnesota, has filed a temporary restraining order against Adam. In a statement, Father Dan Walz said he filed the petition as a last resort out of "...a growing concern for the safety of parishioners..."

Adam is severely autistic, according to his mother. He is home-schooled, and has attended St. Joseph's his whole life.

Adam is more than six feet tall and weighs more than 235 pounds. In court documents, Fr. Walz said Adam's growing size makes it harder for his parents to manage his behavior during mass.

Fr. Walz said Adam struck a child, bolts unexpectedly from church nearly knocking people down, including elderly people. He said Adam also spits and urinates during church.

Adam's mother, Carol, said those allegations are either exaggerated or false. She said Adam is not angry or violent. She said he has never spit in church, and that on rare occasions, he has been incontinent.

Carol blames Adam's worst behavior, revving a church member's running car after mass, on a lack of accommodation from the church.

"They don't understand how the mechanisms of autism are working at the moment of these disruptions and so forth," Carol Race said. "And I want to point out that in the last couple of months Adam has been perfectly well-behaved. So that's what's shocking to me."

Carol said sometimes Adam is noisy and must be restrained during mass, but she said her family always sits in back and leaves church a few minutes early.

A hearing has been set on May 19th in Todd County Court.

http://www.kare11.com/news/news_article.aspx?storyid=511306

Jimmerz
05-19-2008, 06:58 PM
you would think a church of all places, a place that preaches tolerance of others and to love thy neighbor. you would think they would welcome him.

sws4420
05-19-2008, 07:00 PM
I see their point, but they should have simply setup a seat for him near the door. That way if he bolts he bolts without running into anyone.

And pee can be cleaned up.

MedicCook
05-19-2008, 07:05 PM
The church only has tolerance for certain people and groups.

Jimmerz
05-19-2008, 08:32 PM
The church only has tolerance for certain people and groups.

yeah unfortunatly and its sad because if it wasnt more people would probly attend chuch and trust in a faith of some kind..:coffee:

MedicCook
05-19-2008, 08:37 PM
Well I guess they have progressed because there was a time I am sure they would be doing an exorcism on the kid thinking the autism was because the devil has taken his body over.

Thomas the Solitary
05-20-2008, 12:23 AM
I had read about this yesterday and was going to post it, but didn't quite get to it.

I'll agree that there should be something to accommodate him / them, but if you read between the lines, here... the parents took him there even after being told not to. What's this say about them?

I don't know. I'd say there was some lack of communication, somewhere (heh... that's kinda a joke there. Autism is a communication kinda problem)

I'll just bet there are things going on that we just don't know from the news stories.

MedicCook
05-20-2008, 12:39 AM
Maybe they believed in their faith too much and that faith that has been their support turned on them. Maybe this will be a turning point in their life and they will look to other avenues of faith that might not center on the mystical man in the sky.

Thomas the Solitary
05-20-2008, 01:02 AM
I don't know. Like I said, there's probably something else going on.

I do know that when I was going, that place is definitely full of sinners :)

More fake people I've never come across in my life. Some were manipulative, too.

But, I'm not normal. Maybe that's just the way it's supposed to be?